Socio-economic factors, addiction, life and death

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1. a) How do you cope with major disappointments, ill health, misfortune and adversity in life?

Various forms of escapism is a common coping mechanism that distracts our attention from the mental or physical pain: From usually benevolent activities to ones that sometimes lead to problems of their own. Day-dreaming, listening to music, reading books, watching TV, participating on Internet forums and social media, immersing oneself in computer games, and then alcohol, cigarettes, drugs - legal and not. Sometimes these distractions are so attractive that they become addictions. Sometimes the addictions can result in lasting damage to a person's health, and eventually, sometimes, at the final stage, death. Before that, though, they have usually ruined the person's life anyway. So in a sense, their demise could be counted as suicide.

1. b) How should we cope with such major life challenges?

2. a) How is your life and fate impacted by the socio-economic class of your parents?

We like to think we are unique snowflakes, somehow independent from our origins. But usually the apple doesn't fall so far from the tree. Our parents' finances has an impact on where we grow up, therefore what sort of friends we have (at least in early life), what sort of education we get and increasingly on what sort of housing we can afford.

2. b) How can working-class people realistically improve their lives despite their backgrounds and limited means?

Just trying to make sense of these topics.

Any and all comments and thoughts even remotely relevant are welcome!

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This post was very loosely inspired by this article in Washington Post about the life and fate of Anna Marrie Jones:
‘We don't know why it came to this’: An American health crisis plaguing white women
 
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As I type this, I'm eating a big piece of chocolate ...

I'm thinking, maybe if I have many small vices instead of one big one, then I'm less likely to become addicted?
 
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Education and readily available assistance is the best "cure" for addiction. However, healthcare is a luxury in the U.S. for most minimum wage workers. It's only a matter of time before healthcare becomes a luxury for the middle class.
 
I think socio-economic factors for the big majority of Americans have deteriorated steadily over the last 50-years. I'm a so-called "baby boomer," but I think my parents had it easier, economically (and socially,) than I did- and the subsequent X-, Y-, and millenial-generations.

But whether addiction, or the pursuit of other, less harmful diversions, is necessarily tied to adversity, I'm not sure. It's something everyone seems to do. I think maybe it's more a form of self-expression. Whether you're a movieholic, a book-worm, or a junkie, it's a way of saying, "This is who I am, this is how I differ from my next-door neighbor." When socio-economic pressures tend to homogenize everyone into appearing the same, our hobbies can provide us with a sense of identity.
 
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1. a) How do you cope with major disappointments, ill health, misfortune and adversity in life?

1. b) How should we cope with such major life challenges?

2. a) How is your life and fate impacted by the socio-economic class of your parents?

2. b) How can working-class people realistically improve their lives despite their backgrounds and limited means?

I spent a lot of my life being very negative, but I now try to have a more realistic view of the world. Despite having quite a lot of crappy things happening to me in my life, I still consider myself very privileged and I try to remember that when I am freaking out or getting anxious about trivial things. I do often miss having parents or at least someone who could play a parental role in my life as I often want to ask someone for advice.

I think that in the UK because we have free healthcare and welfare and free education up to a point, that we do have social mobility and that working class people can find ways to improve their lives/ jobs etc... I personally think that it was generally a bad idea to encourage so many young people to go to uni (and get into debt) instead of helping people into apprenticeships/work based training.
 
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Various forms of escapism is a common coping mechanism that distracts our attention from the mental or physical pain: From usually benevolent activities to ones that sometimes lead to problems of their own. Day-dreaming, listening to music, reading books, watching TV, participating on Internet forums and social media, immersing oneself in computer games, and then alcohol, cigarettes, drugs - legal and not.

^ that.