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I have not been in this position so no personal experience...  just from what you said above my first instinct is to say "ask him".   Ask him if he has had a lot of friends suggesting alternatives and if yes, how does he feel about it and if no, would be be interesting in hearing some ideas?   Some people are open and some are not, you'll never know unless you ask.


All the best with your decision and please let us know how it goes.


Emma JC