We occasionally had dessert. Sometimes at the end of the meal, sometimes later with the grown-ups' coffee. I loved dessert then and I love dessert now. I'm a big dessert person, in particular home-made desserts, and usually not so keen on store-bought sweet stuff. (I do like some kinds of store-bought ice cream though.) As a child I always much, much, much preferred e.g. strawberry cream cake or waffles or raisin buns (all home-made) over any of the popular crappy sweets aimed at children that you could buy in the store.