There were many people in 2008, including the President, who were against marriage for same sex couples but supported civil unions and other equal rights for all. I think it is the Bible "Man and a woman" thing. I don't think it makes someone completely against LGBTQ people to have had these views.
Is someone completely against people of color if they believe that only white people should be able to get married?
I mean, they'd still be supporting
other equal rights.
(Not to mention, in most cases they
don't support other equal rights. Same-sex marriage is kind-of a tame, bare-minimum thing, believe it or not. There are still trans kids dying on the street that even the general liberal movement doesn't seem to give a **** about.)
Our society has come a long way on this topic in those few short years since '08, with a majority now supporting marriage for all. But this Mozilla businessman (and inventor of javascript, I read) donated a thousand bucks in '08 because he was against the highly publicized California same sex marriage amendment, and is then forced out of his job for it 6 years later.
The past can come back and bite you in the butt sometimes, can't it?
Note that regardless of the time interval in-between he refused to say anything about changing his views. Even in the face of a crisis that threatened his economic prosperity! Sounds like pretty dedicated ignorance to me.
Because of the Freedom of Information Act, political donation information is in the public domain. I wonder who else donated to groups that others may not like? Should they be investigated and forced from their jobs? Should Chik fila fire their executives who donated in *favor* of same sex marriage because it doesn't agree with the homophobic owner guy's opinion? Should those who donated to Florida's upcoming medical marijuana amendment be scrutinized and removed from their private company jobs depending upon their opinions if their boss disagrees?
I don't believe they should be, but if these companies decided to do that, then they're not violating freedom of speech.
No one is ever going to agree on everything, so tolerance is certainly not a stupid goal, in my opinion. I'd be happy if people tolerated vegans more than they do, for example. Expecting everyone to universally accept vegans is a lofty and probably unreachable goal.
Dismantle the power structures behind the kind of oppression that allows people to get away with being hateful assholes and you end up with a world where people aren't being taught that it's okay to act like that from the beginning of their lives. It'd be nice if people who believed LGBTQ people deserve less than everyone else got the same kind of treatment by society as, say, white supremacists. But no, instead we're told that these people have a right to their opinion, and we're just as bad as them if we try and fight back. Which, although you certainly mean well, is a notion that your attitude toward this supports.
It might not be a good idea to compare LGBTQ struggles to veganism, either... I mean, we chose veganism for ourselves. If someone doesn't want to offer me vegan food then sure, they might be a dick, but I understand that veganism is a choice I made. LGBTQ people don't have the opportunity to just stop being who we are. We can't rewire our brains, and we sure as hell wouldn't want to if we could.