My brain just came up with a thought: what is your attitude towards vanilla flavour? It frequently happens that people who are indifferent to coconut, also indifferent to vanilla. My dad used to be like that! He was always saying that "this nasty coconut is just steemed mochalka (loofah)".
What about vanilla flavour,- he used to say that it's "mawkish". When i was younger, i got hooked on vanilla&whipped cream store-brand desserts (of course, they weren't vegan). So i miss them and try and seek for a replacement. I have bought some vanilla sugar though (i'll make ice cream using this condiment). What about coconut, i still haven't finished a bag of dried coconut chunks (just as it is!). The taste of those chunks is natural and not sugary at all (nothing like "Bounty" candies). So i like plain coconut. But apparently, i love it not enough to use it very often. Somedays, my dad bought a whole coconut, we drilled it, drank the liquid, then split it with a saw and ate it raw. That was an excitement! I also happened to buy some coconut water in a vegan shop, but eventually decided that it wasn't worth it and ditched this idea. Sometimes i crave coconut badly: once, i bought a variety of "Bounty" which seemed(!) vegan, according to its ingredient list, but when i ate it, i got stomach ache, dyspepsia and nausea. So i assumed that it wasn't vegan, - therefore i also got a long-term guilt.
(It wasn't guilt about not being sustainable, but about doing intentional harm to my blocky carcass, because animal-derived ingredients do harm instantly,- that's how it works). So i restricted myself (no "Bounty" whatsoever). Anyway, i ditched all chocolate more than a year ago and never touched it ever since (because it causes COPD exacerbations). I miss going to the city freely and buying everything i wish in vegan shops. That is not right.
Sorry, i'm in my usual mood of demagoguery again. I'm getting old and marasmatic...