Woot! It's been 4 weeks! I never even imagined I could do this well. Had a minor issue tonight when we went to a Mexican restaurant. I split an order of veggie fajitas with my boyfriend, and, after discussing it with him, did not specially ask for no sour cream or cheese (though neither was listed on the menu as coming with the dish). When the fajitas arrived, the various toppings were kind of mushed together, so I had to struggle to pick around the grated cheese and sour cream to get the guac, beans, and rice that I wanted. Next time, I will say something. I didn't mind picking around the dairy. I'm not to the point where they gross me out, but I'm so proud that I didn't WANT any of the cheese. I didn't sneak any on purpose. I made a good faith effort to avoid it.
Things are going great, and I've taken a real liking to Daiya shreds. I also had a burger the other day with a Chao slice on top. Thanks for the recommendations--both are awesome once you get used them and totally fill my desire for cheese, even if they don't taste exactly the same.