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I feel that way about small town sports "heroes" too. I grew up and still live in a small rural community in the Deep South, and people just eat sleep and **** football down here. Jocks can do no wrong, in their eyes. Sure, some of them are really decent people and I gladly call a few of those individuals my friends, but then you get this weird cultish hero worship thing where a guy who was a known scumbag and even a date-rapist gets paralyzed in a car wreck, and people treat him like he's some goddamn saint because he played Football, and have a charity run for him every year, etc. because he played sports. I knew this guy. He was a dick. He bullied my little brother for no reason, and that's unforgivable. I'm glad he's suffering.

High school sports worship disgusts me. These athletes can do no wrong in the town's eyes.

:eek: and this is why I love you...

Because of my love for childhood memories of 80s/90s pop culture? Because I want to be a part of the Goonies, have Daniel Larusso (the true Karate Kid) fight for my honor, and move in with Harry and The Hendersons?
 
Because of my love for childhood memories of 80s/90s pop culture? Because I want to be a part of the Goonies, have Daniel Larusso (the true Karate Kid) fight for my honor, and move in with Harry and The Hendersons?

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High school sports worship disgusts me. These athletes can do no wrong in the town's eyes.
Absolutely agree ...and not just because the jocks beat me up every day after school. :p

Interesting thing is, so many of them turned out to be gay, which is why they were beating me up to begin with. But then again that's usually the case.

Who knew that high school athletes, right-wing conservatives, and religious fanatics had so much in common?
 
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Everyone who had half a brain, but was socially ostracized as a result.

See, in theory high school is supposed to be about learning and preparing yourself for a lifetime of responsibilities, both to yourself and the wider world.

In practice it's a series of cliques and bitter disappointments, often perpetuated by the very faculty members who are supposed to encourage everyone to be themselves and to value education.

In the Deep South in particular there's this whole... I dunno, almost Fox News like cabal of teachers, half of whom are also coaches. Some of the ones in my home town were Evangelical christians, and even closet KKK members. Gay kids are often bullied to the point of suicide as a result. A distant cousin of mine, Philip Parker, actually made headlines last year when he had enough.

The person who pretty much made or broke his decision was the guidance counselor for my local high school, a woman I've despised for years. She's one of those holier than thou churchy types. If you're not in the FCC or some other little bible drone she doesn't want anything to do with you. She especially despises gay kids, vegetarians, artists, musicians, punk rockers or any other "Deviants".

And she still has her goddman job. What a farce. She didn't even get reprimanded for ignoring little Philip in his time of need.

And some of you guys wonder why I'm always angry. I refuse to close my eyes and look away from this BS.


And it gets even worse. I work with some of this boy's relatives, his aunts and uncles, and cousins, and I sit in the cafeteria with them and listen to them talk about how gays are un-American or should be killed. People who should have loved him and accepted him for who he was.

You wonder why I'm hateful? These scumbags in human form have never shown anything but hate and contempt for me, the things I stand for and all the little misfits I called my friends my entire life. They've hated everything I love for so long that I can't feel anything but hate for them and their entire brainwashed culture. I don't just hate what they stand for, I personally hate them. I want them to suffer. I want them to die.
 
In the Deep South in particular there's this whole... I dunno, almost Fox News like cabal of teachers, half of whom are also coaches. Some of the ones in my home town were Evangelical christians, and even closet KKK members. Gay kids are often bullied to the point of suicide as a result. A distant cousin of mine, Philip Parker, actually made headlines last year when he had enough.
The person who pretty much made or broke his decision was the guidance counselor for my local high school, a woman I've despised for years. She's one of those holier than thou churchy types. If you're not in the FCC or some other little bible drone she doesn't want anything to do with you. She especially despises gay kids, vegetarians, artists, musicians, punk rockers or any other "Deviants".
And she still has her goddman job. What a farce. She didn't even get reprimanded for ignoring little Philip in his time of need.
And some of you guys wonder why I'm always angry. I refuse to close my eyes and look away from this BS.

That is really awful JJ.

I got an e-mail today from Stonewall and apparently over 50% of gay young people face homophobic bullying at schools in the UK.
Gay young people still face bullying at school | Education | The Guardian
 
Everyone who had half a brain, but was socially ostracized as a result.

See, in theory high school is supposed to be about learning and preparing yourself for a lifetime of responsibilities, both to yourself and the wider world.

In practice it's a series of cliques and bitter disappointments, often perpetuated by the very faculty members who are supposed to encourage everyone to be themselves and to value education.

In the Deep South in particular there's this whole... I dunno, almost Fox News like cabal of teachers, half of whom are also coaches. Some of the ones in my home town were Evangelical christians, and even closet KKK members. Gay kids are often bullied to the point of suicide as a result. A distant cousin of mine, Philip Parker, actually made headlines last year when he had enough.

The person who pretty much made or broke his decision was the guidance counselor for my local high school, a woman I've despised for years. She's one of those holier than thou churchy types. If you're not in the FCC or some other little bible drone she doesn't want anything to do with you. She especially despises gay kids, vegetarians, artists, musicians, punk rockers or any other "Deviants".

And she still has her goddman job. What a farce. She didn't even get reprimanded for ignoring little Philip in his time of need.

And some of you guys wonder why I'm always angry. I refuse to close my eyes and look away from this BS.


And it gets even worse. I work with some of this boy's relatives, his aunts and uncles, and cousins, and I sit in the cafeteria with them and listen to them talk about how gays are un-American or should be killed. People who should have loved him and accepted him for who he was.

You wonder why I'm hateful? These scumbags in human form have never shown anything but hate and contempt for me, the things I stand for and all the little misfits I called my friends my entire life. They've hated everything I love for so long that I can't feel anything but hate for them and their entire brainwashed culture. I don't just hate what they stand for, I personally hate them. I want them to suffer. I want them to die.

I know what you mean, sounds like my experience in primary school and Junior High. The principal of my primary school I still think of from time to time, I still havent forgiven him for the way he treated me. Hes probably not around any more though.
 
My high school was quite fun. There was little in the way of structure, the school was kind of unruly and the teachers had long given up and some of them never showed up. One came in once after not turning up for weeks and saw me drawing a giant mural on the blackboard and said "That is one weird mural" but didnt tell me off or rub it off the board.

The popular clique didnt really have loads of power and there was bullying but not a ton of it. Though sometimes fights broke out. My brother said that from time to time a student would bring a knife to school. I remember my 3rd form (ie first year) social, I ended up not going and I was told that someone brought an air gun to it and shot someone in the leg or something.

I was often targeted by bullies but that was nothing new, I was always a bully magnet. And they left me alone for most of the time at least.

It was easy to just do what you like in class and I spent most of high school drawing and writing letters. I still managed to scrape through with University entrance. I do regret not taking art though.
 
You wonder why I'm hateful? These scumbags in human form have never shown anything but hate and contempt for me, the things I stand for and all the little misfits I called my friends my entire life. They've hated everything I love for so long that I can't feel anything but hate for them and their entire brainwashed culture. I don't just hate what they stand for, I personally hate them. I want them to suffer. I want them to die.

You need to leave that place.
 
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You need to leave that place.

That would be a form of compliance. Defeat is the most bitter thing imaginable. Can't play with that kind of attitude. I think things will get better. It's a generational thing. By the time I'm an old fart the people who make the decisions around here will only be five years behind the rest of the developed world rather than 50.
 
That would be a form of compliance. Defeat is the most bitter thing imaginable. Can't play with that kind of attitude. I think things will get better. It's a generational thing. By the time I'm an old fart the people who make the decisions around here will only be five years behind the rest of the developed world rather than 50.

From your OP on the subject, it seems pretty clear that it's eating you up inside. That's not good for your health. IMO, the deep south is a lost cause.
Why spend your life (Until you become an "old fart") enduring such attitudes. Don't think of it as defeat, but rather a necessary demographic shift. :)

All kidding aside, getting out of that environment will benefit you in the long run, even if it doesn't seem like it now.
 
That would be a form of compliance. Defeat is the most bitter thing imaginable. Can't play with that kind of attitude. I think things will get better. It's a generational thing. By the time I'm an old fart the people who make the decisions around here will only be five years behind the rest of the developed world rather than 50.
I think you should gtfo of there. No matter what you do, they are going to keep being who they are. When they die, their descendants will be the same.

You can't change that, but you can walk away. When you do, that small town in that backwoods area disappears in the rear view mirror really fast. And you glance at yourself in that mirror and notice you are smiling.
 
I think you should gtfo of there. No matter what you do, they are going to keep being who they are. When they die, their descendants will be the same.
I don't think that is necessarily true. This country (on average) is much less racist, sexist and homophobic than it used to be. For that to happen, people had to have either changed or had children who were less like them. It just can take a long time to happen.
 
I don't think that is necessarily true. This country (on average) is much less racist, sexist and homophobic than it used to be. For that to happen, people had to have either changed or had children who were less like them. It just can take a long time to happen.
That's true. I just cringe at the thought of a young person staying somewhere they hate when the people there don't care whether anyone leaves or stays. They only care about themselves and their controlled corner of the world.
 
the people where I live arent racist, sexist or homophobic, they are good people. But they are not doing the same things as me, and that is what I am not so crazy about.
 
the people where I live arent racist, sexist or homophobic, they are good people. But they are not doing the same things as me, and that is what I am not so crazy about.
The interpretation of this statement, in my head, varies from a serious concern, to a petty concern, to a sarcastic joke, and I'm not sure which it is. Could you please elaborate so my brain is less confused? :confused: