I find the whole idea of marriage a bit oppressive but I am now in a situation where, as a gay man, I have to get married. G and I have lived together for 20 years, 16 of those years have been in Andalucia, Spain. If I die before my partner, he will have to pay a very large amount of money in inheritance tax for the privilege of continuing to live in the home which has always been as much his as mine. He doesn't have that money. As my husband he will have to pay nothing!
So we are getting married in Gibraltar in October and we are staying in the Rock Hotel where John Lennon and Yoko Ono were married. I went to secondary school with John.