But I'm really interested in your education alternative, Das Nut. Please tell us more about your plan.
I think for any plan to be effective, you're going to have to address the cultural norms held by all Saudis. For as much as you are focusing on the men, there's a surprising high amount of support by women for the restrictive policies now in place. So:
1. Removal of all censorship of the press, television, and Internet. The media is a powerful tool for changing peoples' thinking.
2. Education of both genders should be called for. It can even be an education that pushes the rights of women by emphasizing the many strong, powerful women in Islamic history.
3. Increasing women's participation in government. (Actually, considering that Saudi Arabia is close to an absolute monarchy, increasing everyone's participation in government). To increase women's participation, I think a period of gender quotas for government office should be called for, even if only temporarily.
4. Removal of all laws and regulations restricting women.
5. Increase the penalty for violence against women.
So, in short, that's (1) increase the exposure of Saudis to other ways of living, (2) increase their knowledge of equal rights, (3 & 4) empower women (and men) to be able to change their situation and (5) punish those who are guilty of dis-empowering women.
Now, if you're like me and a fellow American, its going to be hard to do this unless we invade the country, which is a bad idea on so many levels. But we can push our government to create incentives for Saudis to change. For example, what if we had mandatory quotas for foreigners who wish to study at US universities? For every Saudi man that's educated in the US, there should be one Saudi woman who is also educated in the US. (Heck, why don't we expand this to all countries? Sounds like a good idea.) We could also push for economic trade penalties for countries that don't have a sizable amount of women in government, or that censor the Internet, or that don't have a free press. (Unfortunately, oil is pretty fungible, and Saudi Arabia is not our major source of oil, so the effect would be somewhat limited, but it is a good policy to have.) We could also encourage more people from nations like these to visit the US. (Again, lets have a quota - for every Saudi businessman who visits the US, there needs to be a Saudi woman who also comes to the US.) We can also encourage more immigration, since America tends towards a far more liberal form of Islam than the Wahhabism that's prevalent in Saudi Arabia.