The Coffee House-Come & Chat With Us! (June 2020)

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Oh I meant to ask how that went. I gather she never called you?

Nope. We were discussing it with my other pal who lives in the building. She thinks that the person is stressed out due to covid and work.
I'll have to remember to send her an e mail immediately next time that she bangs on the wall at 7.30 am !:eek::dizzy:
 
Nope. We were discussing it with my other pal who lives in the building. She thinks that the person is stressed out due to covid and work.
I'll have to remember to send her an e mail immediately next time that she bangs on the wall at 7.30 am !:eek::dizzy:
7:30 isn’t even early for someone to be up and around! And yes, it’s possible she is stressed out and nice of you to take that into consideration. I try to do that, too. In general, I don’t think people mean to be jerks, lol. There’s usually a reason but one can try and be accommodating just so much especially if it’s always one sided.
 
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7:30 isn’t even early for someone to be up and around! And yes, it’s possible she is stressed out and nice of you to take that into consideration. I try to do that, too. In general, I don’t think people mean to be jerks, lol. There’s usually a reason but one can try and be accommodating just so much especially if it’s always one sided.

Lol, it was my friend who thinks that she's stressed out. :laughing: However, she ( the complainer) has already written me a few e mails including too many personal remarks when I told her that I was redecorating the flat. I'm just trying to stay on good terms with her because if she wants to make my life miserable, she can easily do so.
 
7:30 isn’t even early for someone to be up and around! And yes, it’s possible she is stressed out and nice of you to take that into consideration. I try to do that, too. In general, I don’t think people mean to be jerks, lol. There’s usually a reason but one can try and be accommodating just so much especially if it’s always one sided.
It seems to me, that due to "covid stress", people sometimes start behaving in a manner which is not peculiar to them. (I mean, these nasty traits, which are deep inside, may be out of control, though in everyday normal life - people would control and hide them). Thus, my coworker Annie (whom i love very much) was rude to me recently. It happened only because i'd been sending her Youtube links to free ballet premieres around the world. I even suspect that she blocked me later! I'm still confused, because those links don't "make garbage" on her phone's hard drive, like e.g. personal videos that get copied into a folder on her phone. She could have just ignored my messages,- moreover, those were interesting and rare ballets, not youtubers' junk content! For instance, when my other co-worker Victoria Sogreyeva sends me various useless stuff, like motivation videos with flowers, kitties, nature, stupid mottos, etc., or with congratulations on religious holidays, which are abundant here,- i don't get mad and don't block her, because i know that at least somebody thinks of me and cares about me, and that's precious (when no one thinks of you - it's a reason to think why). ...I even haven't blocked that girl Xenia, who happened to be a real anarchist.:lol: But i'm considering blocking her, because she's a scary sociopath,- i'm glad i don't have to deal with her IRL.🥴
 
My Aldi delivery arrived, they do vegan wine and vegan moisturiser. I really have to go to a store when this is over as I keep reading how much nice vegan stuff they have there.

I just made a big batch of veggie soup and had a bowl with bread for lunch. It's supposed to be really hot here next week so I thought I should make soup while it's cooler.

I'm going to watch the film The Blair Witch Project today after I finish watching this episode of Buffy. I thought that was one of the most scary films I've I have ever seen when I first saw it! October 1999, just after I left uni.:D
 
How do you know if she is sociopath?
Uugh, believe me, i know... She tries to make me apologize for every word that i've said. If not - then to make me justify/defend myself because she attacks me for ANY WORD i've said, like i have to explain things i've said, because she's highly judgemental, and she makes me feel morally humiliated, exhausted, depressed and irritated. I wonder, isn't it enough? Btw, it's not enough for her: she comes up with the most idiotic conspiracy theories ever, and literally accuses me that i'm not as "advanced" as she thought i would be. She even sends me insulting memes, hinting that i'm like a ram in a herd. She never misses a chance to point at her own superiority, while she points at my mistakes (in my life!!!). Of course, she knows better how i should live my life! (how anyone should live his life).
She also spreads dangerous fakes (dangerous for her). Earlier she was saying that covid didn't exist, now she says that it's not dangerous, and that the government wants to kill us all by implanting microchips with vaccines. Now she also spreads fakes about 2020 amendments to the constitution of Russia (we'll have to vote on Jun.25th-Jul.1st for these amendments). For fakes like hers, people can get in jail. Let her spread her fakes and phantasmagorias anywhere else...
I'm already so annoyed and irritated by that girl, that i'm not blocking her only "in memory of our younger years in college". She wants to make me feel like a piece of sh*t, but this kind of things won't work with me. She thinks that she's super enlightened, while she spreads fakes even about veganism. How a person can make her kids raw vegans from birth, if she (Xenia) believes that vitamin B12 is produced by human body, and that selling B12 is a commercial trick to make the population "rams in a herd"??? I feel so bad for her kids...
 
Uugh, believe me, i know... She tries to make me apologize for every word that i've said. If not - then to make me justify/defend myself because she attacks me for ANY WORD i've said, like i have to explain things i've said, because she's highly judgemental, and she makes me feel morally humiliated, exhausted, depressed and irritated. I wonder, isn't it enough? Btw, it's not enough for her: she comes up with the most idiotic conspiracy theories ever, and literally accuses me that i'm not as "advanced" as she thought i would be. She even sends me insulting memes, hinting that i'm like a ram in a herd. She never misses a chance to point at her own superiority, while she points at my mistakes (in my life!!!). Of course, she knows better how i should live my life! (how anyone should live his life).
She also spreads dangerous fakes (dangerous for her). Earlier she was saying that covid didn't exist, now she says that it's not dangerous, and that the government wants to kill us all by implanting microchips with vaccines. Now she also spreads fakes about 2020 amendments to the constitution of Russia (we'll have to vote on Jun.25th-Jul.1st for these amendments). For fakes like hers, people can get in jail. Let her spread her fakes and phantasmagorias anywhere else...
I'm already so annoyed and irritated by that girl, that i'm not blocking her only "in memory of our younger years in college". She wants to make me feel like a piece of sh*t, but this kind of things won't work with me. She thinks that she's super enlightened, while she spreads fakes even about veganism. How a person can make her kids raw vegans from birth, if she (Xenia) believes that vitamin B12 is produced by human body, and that selling B12 is a commercial trick to make the population "rams in a herd"??? I feel so bad for her kids...
Wow. What the hell? Something is definitelly wrong with her... And she has kids too... :(
Sounds kinda like a narcissists, but I dunno... Go ahead and block her, you'll hardly miss her.
 
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Val - this is a Russian name? Dobrolioubova.
 
Gregg's (bakery) is open again near us. My husband is bringing me home vegan sausage rolls. I haven't had one in months!:hh:
I haven’t had one ever! 😁
 
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Hey everyone! It was busy at work with a steady stream of customers all day. I was starving when I got home so fixed an early dinner. Then I returned my brother's call and we chatted for a while. The weather is very hot with no rain. I will have to water my plants after the sun starts going down. Some of my flowers are a bit "droopy". There are tiny little baby green beans on my plants! I love fresh green beans and I hope to get a few from the 3 plants I have. I am going to watch a movie and have a beer now!
 
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Rained torrentially all night so got up 2 hours late as i cant take Riley outside in the rain, he has this thing about getting his coat wet and if just one drop of rain gets on his coat, he refuses to be outside anymore and goes back to the door....so had to wait for it to stop... i am doing everything 2 hours later than usual. at least it is Sunday....
 
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A friend posted this on her Facebook page. I thought it was interesting enough to share.

 
Rained torrentially all night so got up 2 hours late as i cant take Riley outside in the rain, he has this thing about getting his coat wet and if just one drop of rain gets on his coat, he refuses to be outside anymore and goes back to the door....so had to wait for it to stop... i am doing everything 2 hours later than usual. at least it is Sunday....

My JRT hates the rain too.

You should add a Gregg's steak bake to your order. :p

They didn't have any. I prefer them to the sausage rolls.
 
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