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I like the idea of cuddling but when it's time to sleep my partner has to get the f-ck away from me. My ideal situation, if I ever get into a long-term relationship again, would be to have twin beds like Rob and Laura Petrie... or better yet, just have connecting but separate bedrooms.
 
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Call me a hopeless romantic, but I believe love is more than the sum of its parts. I.e., can't simply be broken down into chemical components and EVO psych. There is something magical, something unexplainable, something magical about love.

Also, I love cuddling, but not when the a.c. is on the fritz. Not in the south. :p
 
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Dogs and cats are better cuddlers than humans are.

I mean romantic cuddling. Personally I get annoyed when my cats start bugging me to spend time with them. I can sit them down and rub their bellies and scratch their ears for like 5 minutes, but that's my limit. Otherwise I spend most of my time with them trying to get them out of my way through deception, and then feeling bad afterwards.

Even though there are like 90 other things for the cats to go do.
 
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All my life I've been hearing from women how we (men) were too into Wam-bam-thank-you-Mam and we didn't spend enough time with the "important intimate parts of a relationship" (i.e. cuddling). Now I find out that the cuddling has fallen out of favor with the women.


I like cuddling.
 
I've always wondered why so many woman (particularly in the veg world) consider themselves to be so empathetic/emotional/caring etc. and
a. mostly like rough and tumble sex
b. don't like things like cuddling.

What?:confused::rofl: Maybe because it's a myth and a gender stereotype that women like cuddles, candlelight and reading poems to their lovers and that men are emotionally distant and only offer affection to get sex. Every guy I've been with has wanted cuddles more than me. Even using the word "cuddles" is creeping me out.:p
 
I mean romantic cuddling. Personally I get annoyed when my cats start bugging me to spend time with them. I can sit them down and rub their bellies and scratch their ears for like 5 minutes, but that's my limit. Otherwise I spend most of my time with them trying to get them out of my way through deception, and then feeling bad afterwards.

Even though there are like 90 other things for the cats to go do.
So funny, I can picture the cats. I find if I annoy them with too much focused attention for a few minutes, they get bored and leave. It works with children too, but not with dogs. :D
 
I used to have a cat named Cat.
I got her when I was just a kid. She lived to be 21. She was a good cat.

She liked to be petted and would approach me and try to entice me into petting her. However if I petted her for very long she would suddenly turn over, grab my hand with her front claws, bite it, and try to gut it with her rear feet.

Now that I think about it, almost all of the women I've ever been with have been like that.
 
What?:confused::rofl: Maybe because it's a myth and a gender stereotype that women like cuddles, candlelight and reading poems to their lovers and that men are emotionally distant and only offer affection to get sex. Every guy I've been with has wanted cuddles more than me. Even using the word "cuddles" is creeping me out.:p

i was more referring to being a caring and loving human ie vegan...i was also referring to women as being the more loving sex, which i actually agree with. I guess i just find it amusing that women are the more loving sex, yet quite a few i've met in veg world (that are vegan) don't like that loving aspecto_O ...strikes me as some kind of disconnect..