Okay, so I am sure most people have members of their family (or extended/spouses family) who have beliefs you disagree with... but what about when their beliefs are actually offensive?
For example, if your in-law makes a racist/homophobic/sexist/etc remark. Or a similar situation. What would you do? What do you do? Is preserving a good relationship for the sake of your spouse/other family members more important than speaking up?
I always find these kind of situations particularly difficult. I hate confrontation, but I always speak up if somebody says something I find offensive - be them friend, stranger or close family member. But for extended family/other peoples family, I always feel torn between saying what I believe and maintaining good relationships with the family of my loved ones. Not for my sake, but for the sake of my loved ones... nobody wants to be piggy in the middle between people they love, and small arguments can drag on for years with extended families.
So yes, what do you guys do / what would you guys do? Any pearls of wisdom?
For example, if your in-law makes a racist/homophobic/sexist/etc remark. Or a similar situation. What would you do? What do you do? Is preserving a good relationship for the sake of your spouse/other family members more important than speaking up?
I always find these kind of situations particularly difficult. I hate confrontation, but I always speak up if somebody says something I find offensive - be them friend, stranger or close family member. But for extended family/other peoples family, I always feel torn between saying what I believe and maintaining good relationships with the family of my loved ones. Not for my sake, but for the sake of my loved ones... nobody wants to be piggy in the middle between people they love, and small arguments can drag on for years with extended families.
So yes, what do you guys do / what would you guys do? Any pearls of wisdom?