I apologize if what I said came off rudely. I did study Physics as an undergrad and grad student and started in the 90s. Astronomy/astrophysics/cosmology are of particular interest to me.
It's been awhile for me, so I'm enjoying refreshing my memory about this stuff. I even got out my text book that I used when I studied special relativity.
I'm sorry too if I'm coming across as a know-it-all. I don't know it all (I don't know much really) and I may be wrong in my position that black holes don't form (just one of many examples).
I'm sure there are quite a few more options to study special relativity now, including online, than there were when I started. I'm not familiar with any from over the last decade. The text I used (and still have) for Special Relativity was Understanding Relativity by Leo Sartori. It's great and covers the subject well. While some parts require knowing Calculus, most only requires knowledge of Algebra.
Relativity is a challenge, because a lot of it is counter-intuitive, but if you're comfortable with the math and what that means, it's not really too bad.
Really it starts with an understanding of inertial frames and Galilean inertial frames, then adding the two postulates of Special Relativity (something about all inertial frames have the same laws of physics, and then the second is that the speed of light is a constant; of course stated more precisely). This leads to a few things like simultaneity, length contraction, and time dilation. Probably a few more things.
Then the Lorentz transformations are added/derived. Then you can study paradoxes and resolve them.
Maybe if I find a good online introduction I'll let you know.