Religion Christians putting you under a microscope

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I am so sick and tired of so called Christians putting me and a few i known under a microscope and everytime I open up about what I believe in and do and all, they shame me and tell me I am sinning big time and also remove me from facebook and block me because I am such a big sinner too them. This behavior is giving a message that one they didn't value me as a person and two they rather believe their legalistic and judgmental ways over being a friend too me, I am not doing nothing wrong but not just being an imperfect human....
I just wish they focus on feeding the poor, helping the needy and helping those that needs help rather judge people that they don't even know fully.....
 
Unfortunately, it seems to be the nature of Christians to be judgmental, but there are still Christians out there who do feed the poor and help the needy.

Here are some sites to look at which feature Christians who are more interested in following the ways of Christ than being judgmental and shame and avoid you for “being a sinner”.

http://sojo.net/

http://forusa.org/

www.catholicworker.org

I'm sure there are more. That's just for starters.
 
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Unfortunately, it seems to be the nature of Christians to be judgmental, but there are still Christians out there who do feed the poor and help the needy.

Here are some sites to look at which feature Christians who are more interested in following the ways of Christ than being judgmental and shame and avoid you for “being a sinner”.

http://sojo.net/

http://forusa.org/

www.catholicworker.org

I'm sure there are more. That's just for starters.
Thanks I am one of them Christians that loves the poor and loves people the way they are however, I am tired of meeting up with Christians that are overly judgemental, the worst ones are the Baptists...
 
I am back under the microscope again and I cannot tolerate this no more, I am thinking of keeping my beliefs as progressive Christian but, I am going to branch out to being a free thinker Christian I am tired of judgmental Christians attacking my personal choices.
 
Let he who is without sin cast the first stone ...

Summat about not being able to see the splinter in your brothers eye clearly unless you first remove the plank in your own ...

A lot of Christians would be far better off if they practiced Christianity.
 
Let he who is without sin cast the first stone ...

Summat about not being able to see the splinter in your brothers eye clearly unless you first remove the plank in your own ...

A lot of Christians would be far better off if they practiced Christianity.
I have an image I share on
Facebook time to time that says those without sin cast the first stone, don't judge her she has a savior deal thing, it shuts them up for awhile.
 
Another random thought ...
we love our church, our pastor preaches to love everyone and help those that are in need that are differnt then you.. Its just Christians I meet online that is doing this too me...

Cool on the 'found a Church you like' front there, PVL :)

(Church-u-like? Hmmmmm ... )

Not cool on the online Christians getting all 'heathen' on your butt though ...

Question: Why do you actualy care if un-Christlike Christian's dont want to be your freind though?

(Gandhi: I like your Christ, I do not like your Christians. Your Christians are so unlike your Christ.)

I'm thinking along the lines that un-buddhalike buddhists blocking or removing me would be something I would view as an entirely positive result.
 
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I have known/do know many wonderful Christians who do actually live according to Christ's teachings. They know I am atheist, and do not try to convert me. People who are intolerant just don't have a place in my life, regardless of what their religious belief may be.
 
I have lost a few more Christian friends and I am going to take measures , it will not hurt me if they remove me, I am more peaceful at the people that still is communication with me but, I don't need to be stressed out by many Judgmental views from them.
 
I am so sick and tired of so called Christians putting me and a few i known under a microscope and everytime I open up about what I believe in and do and all, they shame me and tell me I am sinning big time and also remove me from facebook and block me because I am such a big sinner too them. This behavior is giving a message that one they didn't value me as a person and two they rather believe their legalistic and judgmental ways over being a friend too me, I am not doing nothing wrong but not just being an imperfect human....
I just wish they focus on feeding the poor, helping the needy and helping those that needs help rather judge people that they don't even know fully.....
Christians who judge others are not being Christian the bible says all have fallen short of the glory of God. To sin means to miss the mark of perfection and as none are perfect we all continue to sin. There are of course sins, and sins, some are plainly wrong in the bible. Jesus came to help sinners not disown them we also have the gift of free will and choose how to live our lives.
 
I am more progressive now and we decided after we moved in our location to just avoid a lot of Christians that don't know our background and issues in life and to just visit places of various Faiths and Religions as my life is getting more peaceful and i am becoming more of a free thinker now…
 
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I have left the Christian Faith mostly and will not enter another church, i am in more of a better peaceful life and i love how i am living it with alternative faith.
 
Hello I tried to attend church again last month and it was the last straw, the church we both picked overly judged me of whom i say friends and told me i needed to do and that and they accused me for sending my husband too the hospital because he was depressed about stuff... I since then changed to more liberal progressive and peaceful and i am going to adapt to earthly base and all.. I am sick of being judged by people that don't know my personal life issues and understand them.