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In the mammal kingdom, it is usually the males who fight, rather than the females. The way our society is set up, people are well into adulthood before they choose their mate and reproduce. So the young man is like the lion who got kicked out of the pride for being male, but isn't strong enough to have his own pride. He fights with other males to try to establish dominance, or tries to sneak in and find a female.
I also think the schools are very frustrating for boys and young men, especially when they discontinue physical education and make the kids sit all day.
In addition, I think there are too few opportunities to actually fight with other males. Sports helps with this to an extent, and so does martial arts. I wish the schools taught martial arts to children.
I have a massive gripe with this on the basis of gender essentialism in the first place, but I also think it's flat-out incorrect.
Schools funnel funding from everything into their sports teams. Hypermasculine behavior and its resulting violence is at best ignored and at worst encouraged. Schools are far from discontinuing physical education and stifling traditional masculine activities. In fact they do their absolute best to shoehorn anyone who doesn't care for these things, into doing them anyway.
I say this as someone who just graduated from a very typical high school, less than a year ago, in a relatively liberal part of the US.