Huge difference in between tawdry sexual advances in social situations and those where power is wielded, with threats and fear.
I just heard on NPR a man apologising for making sexual advances while drunk--and I mean improper advances not restraint. Is that improper? Yes. Should he be admonished? Yes. But if that's all that's all. I have known enough tawdry women who need to make the same apologies to men.
Both sexes have lauded sex over each other forever, in different ways. I just hope we keep the focus on the actions that actually have created inequalities to cause people to lose employment or be charged criminally. If we lump every pat on the azz or what was done in jest the same as actions where fear is caused we lose
I just heard on NPR a man apologising for making sexual advances while drunk--and I mean improper advances not restraint. Is that improper? Yes. Should he be admonished? Yes. But if that's all that's all. I have known enough tawdry women who need to make the same apologies to men.
Both sexes have lauded sex over each other forever, in different ways. I just hope we keep the focus on the actions that actually have created inequalities to cause people to lose employment or be charged criminally. If we lump every pat on the azz or what was done in jest the same as actions where fear is caused we lose