Yesterday was another ‘WFPB-off track’ day, as I was offered a packed lunch in a meeting; it was all vegan (OK on the ‘PB-side’ of the equation) but with very processed foods- particularly because of the white bread, lots of oil - with fried eggplants, fried onions, etc. (not so OK on the ‘WF’ side of the equation).
I sometimes face a couple of dilemmas:
1) I prefer to go for WFPB options whenever I can, but I do not at all like food waste- that is why, when I am out, I often prefer buffets, as I can ensure I only take what I would like to eat, in the amount I would like to eat, without throwing away food. Pre-packed meals, on the other hand, create such dilemma: to eat something that is not so healthy (even though it is vegan) or to waste food?
2) we are all social beings- and in yesterday’s example, there were about 15 or so people around the table. I was the only one who asked for a vegetarian option (I was not offered a vegan option, but as it turned out, the meal was also vegan, although not so healthy as it was very oily and salty). With hindsight, to solve personal dilemma No. 1, I could have simply said ‘no’ - do not bring me lunch, even though it might be vegan, as I know from experience, it is most likely far from being ‘WF’ - with lots of oil, white flour, salt, etc. But I would have been the only one sitting there, not partaking in the meal, as a social event…
After yesterday’s experience, and some reflection, these are the conclusions I am reaching:
(a) one should simply accept the fact that, unfortunately, whenever you are outside your own home, given standard diets and predominant practices in food preparation at present, on occasions, it is OK to let food be wasted in the short-term (rather than consume such foods at the cost of one’s health); at the same time, one should advocate, longer term, for more and healthier options (including more WFPB options), so that healthy meals outside your own home become more common, rather than - as they are now in some places - exceptional- therefore reducing food waste over time.
(b) one should be more willing to simply say ‘no’, even in highly social settings - yesterday, at the lunch meeting, I could have simply opted to fast and said “I am fasting- thank you for the offer, but I will skip this one’ (normally, in fact, I try to have only one meal a day). This would have prevented personal dilemma No. 1. I could have simply asked for some tea instead, for example, to still partake, in a small way, in the meal as a social event (sipping tea rather than eating food).
Today I will experiment: I will be joining a couple of get-togethers (social and work-related). In one of the get-togethers I know that relatively healthy options are available; in the other one, I am not so sure. Will post tomorrow how they both went.
If you are reading this line now- thanks for reaching this far! If any of these reflections resonate with you in some way, do let me know!