- Joined
- Jun 4, 2012
- Reaction score
- 19,505
- Age
- 64
- Location
- I'm liek, in Cali, dude.
- Lifestyle
- Vegetarian
As a Highly Sensitive Person, introspection and observation of my reality is a natural state for me. I'm pleased to see others also so engaged.
I hope whatever your plans are they work out for you.Though it may sound selfish, right now I have to be the most important person to myself. I am embarking on a journey of change right now after devoting my entire life to others. That said, I am a very nurturing person and my family still is most important to me. Without the support of my sister, I would not be able to endure what life has thrown at me lately.
Who is the most important person in your life right now? It can be a family member, a relative, a friend, or somebody else. If this person were to suddenly not be around any more (for whatever reason), you'd be utterly and completely lost.
Determine who that person is, and let them know in no uncertain terms how much they mean to you. Give them a hug and kiss. Give them a gift. Treat them to dinner, either homemade or restaurant-bought. Spend one whole day with that person and only that person. Get a really nice blank greeting card and write in it an essay or poem telling them what they mean to you. Teach them something, a craft or some knowledge, that you know and you want them to know.
Don't wait until "it's too late". Do it now.
Though it may sound selfish, right now I have to be the most important person to myself. I am embarking on a journey of change right now after devoting my entire life to others. .
You have to do the best thing for you and your future. Throw the notion of selfishness out the window and breathe.I too am contemplating a journey of change.
The realisation of how much of myself I have lost or compromised by devoting myself to the care and happiness of others has hit me between the eyes today, so I have not even began to mentally 'pack' my cases for the journey!!
It is not my nature to put myself first but the recognition that I need to do so is making me dizzy today, I can think of nothing else.
It is an alien thought to me, an uncomfortable one, making me feel sick. I too feel selfish but actually it is just self preservation.
I have to breathe too??? I am so busy working on thinking I forgot that part!You have to do the best thing for you and your future. Throw the notion of selfishness out the window and breathe.
The realisation of how much of myself I have lost or compromised by devoting myself to the care and happiness of others has hit me between the eyes today, so I have not even began to mentally 'pack' my cases for the journey!!
And finaly ...I have to breathe too??? I am so busy working on thinking I forgot that part!
This made me cry. Thanks. This is a moment of realization for me. Mom mom's sick.. Sooo. Yeah. Thank you.