Nightshade
Get off my lawn!
Is not everything questionable for as long as unanswered questions remain?
I'm going to break my rule of never posting more words that I can get away with to try and cast light on something on my mind ...
Spent a fair part of my life as a troubleshooter in small businesses. A job that was always had the least possible time and disruption as it's two main criteria.
Always the problems that needed to be sorted were people based problems and had long long 'histories' of whom had done what to whom.
Blame cultures, basicaly, and the history of blame was always unravelable in any way that was not going cause as many greivances as it solved.
Fix always the same:
Put the past to rest; Forgive in return for forgiveness; Agree new strategy for benefit of all; No looking back; Move on.
Then you're doomed to have history repeat itself ad infinitum.