Ok, fair enough. how do we change the culture?
Cultural changes come about because society as a whole takes steps to change them. Laws aren't the only thing that need to be addressed - but it's a good start. And it's the low hanging fruit. Part of the evoloution of a society is to put parameters in place for what is acceptable and what is not. Why should we need to be over-sensitive and careful with a culture of people who love their guns, when in all likelyhood those people have all the guns and ammunition they will ever need? I fail to see why we are walking on eggshells about this. They are not the ones losing their lives.
In regards to how to change culture, good question
My view on how to fix the problem is somewhat hypothetical. My realistic answer is probably not going to be a popular one.
I don't believe we're ever going to change the violent nature of modern human society. Sorry to be pessimistic, but I am not a man of blind faith or hope not backed by evidence. I believe in data and cause and effect based on that data. I've previously stated my opinion regarding pre-civilization society, but that life is gone. Humans within the context of resource based society are violent, and there is about as much data to back that up as there is on the theory of gravity. The best we can do is create temporary bubbles of relative safety for ourselves, and that tends to result in conflict somewhere else. These shootings that seem to take place every few months are heart breaking, but that's only because they happen and are reported in a manner that triggers our empathy more so than the violence that takes place every day somewhere else, compared to which these shootings represent a grain of sand in the desert. Like I said before... 250 to 300 murders on an average day, and that doesn't even include the violence coming from the 60 countries currently involved in armed conflict. Yes, we and a few other industrialized countries have managed to carve out a little piece of paradise (comparatively) in the midst of it all, and if you're lucky enough to spend most of your life within the walls of that paradise you might be able to maintain some sense of hope. Perhaps I'm merely warped by my own experiences at the other end of the spectrum, but to me spending so much effort waging a fight against gun ownership in an effort to slightly reduce the frequency of events like the one that just happened is akin to trying to polish up a sand castle at low tide and, with any luck, enjoy it for an hour or two before the tide comes back and sweeps it away.
That said, and I do apologize for not being able to provide a more specific answer and instead only being able to point at what I see as flawed through the lenses of my possibly skewed world view, no matter how much effort we put into changing what's happening at a micro level, eventually the tide will come back in and sweep our progress back into the sea.
Thus, my pessimism towards the idea of a peaceful world where violence, whether internal or external, is rare, is why I call my view hypothetical. So... Hypothetically speaking, if I were a person who actually believed society as a whole was capable of existing peacefully, I would caution against attacking a people's way of life without first tackling the reason why they feel the need to maintain that way of life, otherwise the temporary progress will leave a trail of resentment that ultimately divides societies and leads them to collapse. The internal conflict that is inevitable with such collapse is typically much more devastating than a shooting here and there.
The hypothetical question I would ask, and the best answer I can come up with off the top of my head, in an effort to find a longer lasting solution to the gun problem would be as follows:
Why do people feel the need to buy guns?
- The same reason you feel the need to get rid of them. Fear. Remember the infamous rat experiment where two rats are shocked but one of them has a button it can press which it is trained to believe will mitigate the shock? Even though it doesn't, the perceived element of control results in a more stable, healthier rat even though they're both shocked the same amount. The violence of the world is the shock. With the gun fanatics, the guns are their perceived button. With the gun control fanatics, reduction in guns is their perceived button. Forget the button, it's not even functional. Get rid of the fear, and you negate the reason for having the button in the first place.
But that's the tricky part... If you're more optimistic than I am, then good luck. If you have the same bias towards the nature of modern society as I do, I would suggest that the best place to solve the problem is inside your own mind. I'm happy with my life and I live without fear not because I believe the violence of the world will end, but because I've learned to accept my mortality and not feel the need to micromanage it. I'm not completely inactive in regards to trying to promote change, far from it. I just acknowledge that the actions I take (including but not limited to being vegetarian) are more for the maintenance of my sanity than because I believe in any long term benefit.