I've been reading some of the writings of William Jelani Cobb, a black man who is a professor of journalism at Columbia's School of Journalism. Since I am not a black person, I was quite unfamiliar with much of the material he ws writing about.
Cobb believes that a substantial amount (by no means all nor even a majority) of the hatred experienced by black people in American society is due to the misogyny directed against black women by black men. As an example, he cites Nelly's song/music video "Tip Drill." A "tip drill" (a term I had never heard of before) is a woman with a plain or unattractive face but with a beautiful, sexy body--what white people might call a "butter-face" ("but-her-face").
Nelly's video (released around 2000) caused a furor and caused him to be named misogynist of the month, etc. By the way, all the women shown in the video looked quite attractive to me, including their faces.
I am going to try to put the URL within spoiler tags, and some of you may find it quite offensive. It includes a scene of Nelly "swiping" his credit card between a woman's butt-cheeks, whereupon she immediately starts "twerking" or shaking her butt.
