I remember my (biological) father deriding my mother for wanting to read the newspaper, questioning why she needs to know what's going on because she had plenty do around the house, what with cooking, cleaning and taking care of us kids. The inherent patriarchal narrative is so entrenched. It's almost like the animal food industry. It's so ingrained that it's not questioned. Her own mother wouldn't pay for her to go to college for teaching because "why would you need to do that? Just get married and have kids; that's what you're supposed to do."
Well spoken. My grandmother wanted to go to school to become a teacher, but her own grandmother (her legal guardian) would not let her do it because getting married and having kids is the thing to do. It's scary to think how that attitude is not that far in the past.