I HAVE TWO BABY MONARCH CATERPILLARS ON MY MILKWEED!! I’VE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS FOR 25 YEARS! LOL
Sounds like you might have the same milkweed that I had when I was living in New York. I waited every year for the monarchs to lay their eggs with no luck. I had so much milkweed at times it would try to overtake everything else. Before I knew what it was, I would rip it out but it just kept coming back.@KLS52 Interesting... your milkweed doesn't look like the kind I have in my yard. The leaves you have are narrower and more sharply pointed at the end. Maybe that's why the Monarchs haven't been interested in mine: I've seen them apparently flying around my milkweed (more than the other plants), but they seem to finally decide: "Uhhhh... Nope. Not today, anyway.".
Does your milkweed have pretty flat-topped clusters of orange flowers?