I've had to deal with this my whole life and I still can't think of a good response. IMO it's rude to put someone on the spot like that. How would they like it if I asked them "why do you talk so much?"
Anyway, I'm going to an event this weekend with tons of people, and there's a good chance this will come up. It's a friend's celebration, so I'd rather not be snarky.
Responses I've thought of so far . .
"I enjoy being the fly on the wall."
"I'm doing it on purpose to annoy you!"
"If I tell you that, I will have to kill you!"
"I like to maintain my aura of mystery"
"I like to be the Silent Bob of the group."
"It's a personality trait. Some of us are more quiet than others." (Would it be too condescending to say that? It's true though, and I have a feeling it would make them feel stupid and shut up.)
Then of course there is well-intention but ignorant "You should talk more!!!!"
I'm thinking of saying something like
"If you want me to talk more, I'd be happy to answer whatever questions you have for me."
"Says who? Who made up that rule?"
"You should talk less"
"I disagree"
"Oh okay. Thank you for your opinion."
"It's okay for people to be who they are."
"Thanks, but I'm happy just like this."
What do you think of my responses? Any other ideas for me to try?
Anyway, I'm going to an event this weekend with tons of people, and there's a good chance this will come up. It's a friend's celebration, so I'd rather not be snarky.
Responses I've thought of so far . .
"I enjoy being the fly on the wall."
"I'm doing it on purpose to annoy you!"
"If I tell you that, I will have to kill you!"
"I like to maintain my aura of mystery"
"I like to be the Silent Bob of the group."
"It's a personality trait. Some of us are more quiet than others." (Would it be too condescending to say that? It's true though, and I have a feeling it would make them feel stupid and shut up.)
Then of course there is well-intention but ignorant "You should talk more!!!!"
I'm thinking of saying something like
"If you want me to talk more, I'd be happy to answer whatever questions you have for me."
"Says who? Who made up that rule?"
"You should talk less"
"I disagree"
"Oh okay. Thank you for your opinion."
"It's okay for people to be who they are."
"Thanks, but I'm happy just like this."
What do you think of my responses? Any other ideas for me to try?